For those wanting to know more, I'm opening my heart and mind to you. Read past the first fluffer questions - I go pretty deep!
Who is Abbi Minx, really?
Abbi Minx is a stage name, obviously. A friend of mine once said I reminded him of the Abbi character on Broad City, one of my favorite shows. The word "minx" defines me to a T. I am bold in my sexuality and expression of it, as well as playful and young-hearted. In essence, I'm like the youthful lover who's never been exposed to society's puritan expectations of women and is most comfortable being naked to the world.
Black - it matches everything and I look fabulous in it.
Anything with an exotic and luxurious smell to it. My current favorite go to is Nirvana by Elizabeth and James.
Diving deeper, how and when did you decide to be a companion?
I've been sex-driven since I was a teenager (who wasn't?) despite not having sex until my early 20s. I have a healthy fascination with pornography and have always wanted to participate in it's making. It wasn't until college that I began to seriously consider providing. I experimented a bit with sugar daddy websites and found them to be rewarding physically, financially, and experientially, however I hungered for more excitement than a weekend trip once a month. In April 2016 I gingerly checked into a Bloomington hotel (okay I'll be honest: it was a cheap motel - I didn't know what I was doing) and did my first incall after taking a few outcall steps the week prior. I was clueless in the beginning. I thought I had to be awake 24/7, priced my time too low, and hadn't even heard of "screening". Fortunately, the worst thing that happened in any appointments was a lack of chemistry. A quick study with an iPhone, I scoured TER, P411 and Eros as soon as their names entered my lexicon. Within a month, I'd made the beginning of a name for myself, adjusted my donations to market rate for my offerings, and started looking for a private incall residence. Abbi Minx was then born!
What's the funniest thing that's happened to you in your work?
It wasn't during an appointment, but as I was checking into a hotel in my home city (before I secured my apartment), I got to the front desk and recognized the man checking me in as a friend of mine. There I was, in a dress and heels, make up and hair done checking into a hotel in the city I resided in - I stammered something about being on a "staycation" and smiled until I got my key card.
Do you enjoy traveling?
Absolutely! I'm adventurous bordering on reckless when it comes to travel. I spent three years in Turkey and in that time visited some fascinating places. During the 2008 Russian invasion of Georgia, I hopped on a 24 hour bus and scooted on up to Tbilisi. I didn't think I'd have the chance to see that sort of thing again. I told my family of my plans and their response was "we don't want you to go, but we know you will so just be safe". I've been to your standard European hotspots as well as some off the map villages in the Middle East and Asia.
Of all of your travels, what was your favorite destination?
I love the north of Turkey, especially where the Bosphorus and Black Sea meet. I also enjoy anywhere on a coast. I'm a city girl at heart and can't be in the wild for more than a day, but bodies of water appeal to me.
Where would you like to go in the future?
Central Asia! I was a Turkic Linguistics student and am fascinated by Central Asia, specifically Azerbaijan and Turkmenistan. There's a tour company, Silk Road I believe, that has shopping, adventure, and photography tours and they arrange the visas ahead of time. That's my dream at the moment and something I'm saving for.
What are your favorite activities?
Anything involving people. Like I said, I'm a city girl and while roughing it in the woods may be my idea of torture, I love love love being around others. Sometimes that means gatherings with friends, sometimes it means working with my laptop in a cafe. I also attend swingers parties which couple my love of people and sex. I might be a bit of an exhibitionist*
*my definition: loving to be watched by CONSENTING adults, i.e. no public play where spectators are caught off guard, thus not consenting.
What's your dream job?
Honestly, I think I've found it in providing and I'm super bummed that everyone seems to think there's a shelf life to it. If I had my way, I'd do this until I was 90, meeting clients in my posh nursing home. I've only been providing for a year so I know my thinking might change, but as long as I stay centered, in touch with my wants and needs, and take plenty of vacation days, I don't see myself stopping anytime soon.
Which came first: the chicken or the egg?
The egg, obviously. I'm serious, I have a whole argument to back it up.
What's your favorite part of being a companion?
Connecting with my partners. Loving them within safe, predefined perimeters. Making their day, week, or month better. Helping build their confidence and proving by experience that they are awesome and super lovable. I don't think clients know that they can make my days better as well. Nothing compares to the high I get after having an amazing connection with someone. After a great appointment you'll find me singing along to the radio in my car.
Least favorite part?
I have two, actually. I'll preface the first one by saying that clients who pass my screening and meet me are wonderful. The issue is the contact I have with people who I end up choosing not to see. I'm an empath and every interaction, negative and positive, effect me. However it's not enough of a problem that I'd want to forgo my personal touch in emails and use a scheduler. My second least favorite part is when the authenticity of my experience is called into question. I'm sure people in my line of work have a number of reasons for choosing this lifestyle. I'm upfront and honest about mine. When someone asks me "if I really mean that" repeatedly, I interpret that as being accused of lying or being fake. I'm nothing if not honest and appreciate that part of me to be honored.
What's the best way to contact you in hopes of an appointment?
Email is always best. If you write complete sentences, include your screening info, and have a date and time in mind, my panties drop to the floor. If you have a specific request for an act, always ask if it's okay to ask. Lastly, I'm hopelessly addicted to my phone and respond so quickly you might think it's auto generated (it's not). If you're hoping for a same day appointment, please be ready to email me back quickly. A girl needs to get ready and know where to start driving to! Most of all, be yourself. I'm not interested in judging you. I don't care what you look like (honestly), I care about your heart and how you interact with me. Nerves are normal and I'll do all I can to put you at ease. I just want to see you happy!